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October 18, 2021 at 5:45 am #93026
thaParticipantA lot of educational mistakes committed by those who raise the child, in the end, you produce a deformed child with many defects that cannot be controlled later, so if you suffer from the child’s inattention to your speech, or he does not want to listen to you, or you suffer from a problem in Proper communication with him, or if he listens to the words and advice of others without you, then you must reconsider your relationship together, the nature of your upbringing for him, and your ability to make him a listening person for you, his teachers, and those who take care of him.
In this regard, Dr. Mohamed Adel, a psychologist, explained that a child who cannot listen is a child who often does not find anyone to listen to him. This stubborn child who does not have the ability to listen or the patience to listen to his parents, does not suffer from satisfactory conditions in all Conditions, as parents think wrongly in many cases, but many of the combined factors that turned him into a child does not listen.
Dr. Muhammad continued his speech, explaining that the most important reasons for the child not listening to his parents and teachers are to belittle his status or reduce his speech when talking about any matter, or neglect his words or laugh at him, or the parents’ lack of patience in listening to the son’s talk and problems, or the control and domination of one of the parents in Dealing with the child, or directing continuous orders to him without hearing his opinion, or the absence of the father at home for long periods and not finding enough time to listen to his child.
Some important tips for your child to listen to you and their teachers
And because a child who is not listening is an unlovable child, as many describe him as stubborn and nervous, Dr. Mohamed Adel offers a set of the most important tips to make the child listen to his parents and teachers, to become an obedient child capable of adapting and communicating, the most important of which are:
Listen to your child from the beginning of his ability to speak, even if his words are not understood.
Be patient with him and give him his time to talk and listen fully.
Do not speak or comment until after he has finished talking or when he asks you to do so.
– Pay attention to the way you talk to his mother and the rest of his brothers and family members, so do not be overlapping and your voice is always loud.
Speak in a calm, calm tone with your child, after listening to him, and there is no need to be nervous or loud all the time.
– Do not help your child to interrupt someone’s speech, but rather teach him to wait until the people in front of him finish talking.
Do not scold him for not listening, but ask him to do so with respect, calm and love.
– Do not overlook expressions, slogans, speeches and conversations with your child unnecessarily, the useful manual.
Make your child enjoy special time with you, to listen to each other together.
Pay attention to the psychological state of your child and choose the times to talk to him when he is calm.
Always tell him I am listening to you.
Teach him to listen a lot and talk a little.
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